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01 Sep 14 at 7 pm

Asked by Anonymous

asker Re: your "rule about naked people" -- How about people who take nude photos of themselves not be stupid and use storage devices that can be hacked, like cloud storage (or take any risks close to that)? Just HOW much personal responsibility does your generation need to shed before you get it through your thick skulls that it only costs $20 for a decent external hard drive these days? :|

fishingboatproceeds:

"The lock on your diary wasn’t very good, so it’s your fault I read your diary."

 395055
25 Aug 14 at 8 pm

magicbuffet:

angelica-aswald:

mtvstyle:

want this moment burned on my eyelids

So many girls saw this. Bless.

first time any televised performance made me cry???

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magicbuffet:

angelica-aswald:

mtvstyle:

want this moment burned on my eyelids

So many girls saw this. Bless.

first time any televised performance made me cry???

bisexualpiratequeen:

I’m trying hard to live by Cat Principles.

1- I am glorious above all things
2- Eat when hungry, sleep when sleepy, play when bored
3- Affection is given and received on my terms and only mine
4- Show displeasure clearly.
5- NO
6- Demand the things you want. If they aren’t given, demand them again, but louder this time.
7- If you are touched when you don’t want to be, say so. If they continue to touch you, make them bleed.

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 19
19 Aug 14 at 2 pm

marykatemcdevittblog:

A sketch for a birthday invitation for a person turning one. 

marykatemcdevittblog:

A sketch for a birthday invitation for a person turning one. 
asker (*! Small tw!* ) Im more than a little done. My best friend had sex with her boyfriend for the first time and when she asked him to stop because it hurt HE SAID SHE WAS A RUDE SELFISH BI*** D: does logic exist or is it like unicorns?

misandry-mermaid:

I think your best friend’s sex partner needs to eat a shit sandwich and never get laid again because it is straight-up abusive to tell your partner they are selfish for not wanting to feel pain during sex.  What’s actually selfish is refusing to prioritize her need to not be in pain over his own fucking pleasure.

Side-note: Pain for people with vaginas during penetrative intercourse is super common and is a sign that your partner needs to slow down, not penetrate as deep, change positions, or stop altogether.  If your partner cannot respect the request to stop doing whatever is creating your pain, they are not a partner deserving of a sexual relationship (or any relationship, like fuck that is such an abusive mentality!).  And I’d say that most people with penises don’t realize how painful it can be to be hit in the cervix by a penetrative object, but I can tell you from experience: it feels like you’re being fucking stabbed from inside your body.  IT. REALLY. HURTS.  So PLEASE take it seriously when your vagina’d partner says ease up, or slow down, or stop. 

 784
13 Aug 14 at 7 pm

stripperina:

The idea that sex workers have to feel empowered by their work in order for it to be a valid profession is a really harmful one. Nobody harasses school teachers or construction workers or cashiers about their jobs being demeaning to the point that they have to say “I find it…

Sex Work and "Empowerment"

"

Let me be clear: Unarmed college hopefuls don’t deserve to be shot. Unarmed kids heading to work or trade school don’t deserve to be shot. Unarmed kids floundering aimlessly through life don’t deserve to be shot. Unarmed kids who have been in trouble—even those who have been nothing but trouble—don’t deserve to be shot.

The act of pinning the tragedy of a dead black teen to his potential future success, to his respectability, to his “good”-ness, is done with all the best intentions. But if you read between the lines, aren’t we really saying that had he not been on his way to college, there’d be less to mourn?

That’s dead wrong.

"

 6
12 Aug 14 at 6 pm

catsweaterprincess:

this is an incredibly interesting article from a perspective I never thought I would hear from, I highly suggest reading it

I Waited Until My Wedding Night to Lose My Virginity, and I Wish I Hadn’t | Styleite
 946
10 Aug 14 at 1 am

dailydishonesty:

Just like my soul does whenever I see a text from you.

(Source: homsweethom.com)

dailydishonesty:

Just like my soul does whenever I see a text from you.
 869
10 Aug 14 at 1 am

ahistoryofweedcraft:

Flash back! Tattoo on my little bebe Hannah. Love you girl thanks for trusting me with decorating your body xxx 👭 #hannahpixiesnowdon #graceneutral #handpoked #floweroflife #uktattoo #mybodymod😘🔮💜💞✨

ahistoryofweedcraft:

Flash back! Tattoo on my little bebe Hannah. Love you girl thanks for trusting me with decorating your body xxx 👭 #hannahpixiesnowdon #graceneutral #handpoked #floweroflife #uktattoo #mybodymod😘🔮💜💞✨
 123209
10 Aug 14 at 12 am

nameless-fish:

adapto:

Body comparative #13 (1,2)

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 1165
30 Jul 14 at 10 pm

E.B. White, Letters of E. B. White (via larmoyante)

(via kameleon--soul)

"I would feel more optimistic about a bright future for man if he spent less time proving that he can outwit Nature and more time tasting her sweetness and respecting her seniority."

 31867
28 Jul 14 at 5 pm

I love playing Brienne of Tarth because, when I was growing up, I didn’t really see people on television that I felt that I could identify with. Women all looked kind of a particular way, women characters that were popular, anyway. And when I had the opportunity to play this part, it made me explore the parts of myself I had hidden from. I had very long hair. I wanted to look very feminine, really tall. (x)

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 139147
27 Jul 14 at 10 pm

Time-Machine (via a comment at shakesville.com)

Ughhhh, so important.

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"

To all those who don’t think the rape joke was a problem, or rape jokes are a problem.

I get it, you’re a decent guy. I can even believe it. You’ve never raped anybody. You would NEVER rape anybody. You’re upset that all these feminists are trying to accuse you of doing something or connect you to doing something that, as far as you’re concerned, you’ve never done and would never condone.

And they’ve told you about triggers, and PTSD, and how one in six women is a survivor, and you get it. You do. But you can’t let every time someone gets all upset get in the way of you having a good time, right?

So fine. If all those arguments aren’t going anything for you, let me tell you this. And I tell you this because I genuinely believe you mean it when you say you don’t want to hurt anybody, and you don’t see the harm, and that it’s important to you to do your best to be a decent and good person. And I genuinely believe you when you say you would never associate with a rapist and you think rape really is a very bad thing.

Because this is why I refuse to take rape jokes sitting down-

6% of college age men, slightly over 1 in 20, will admit to raping someone in anonymous surveys, as long as the word “rape” isn’t used in the description of the act.

6% of Penny Arcade’s target demographic will admit to actually being rapists when asked.

A lot of people accuse feminists of thinking that all men are rapists. That’s not true. But do you know who think all men are rapists?

Rapists do.

They really do. In psychological study, the profiling, the studies, it comes out again and again.

Virtually all rapists genuinely believe that all men rape, and other men just keep it hushed up better. And more, these people who really are rapists are constantly reaffirmed in their belief about the rest of mankind being rapists like them by things like rape jokes, that dismiss and normalize the idea of rape.

If one in twenty guys is a real and true rapist, and you have any amount of social activity with other guys like yourself, really cool guy, then it is almost a statistical certainty that one time hanging out with friends and their friends, playing Halo with a bunch of guys online, in a WoW guild, or elsewhere, you were talking to a rapist. Not your fault. You can’t tell a rapist apart any better than anyone else can. It’s not like they announce themselves.

But, here’s the thing. It’s very likely that in some of these interactions with these guys, at some point or another someone told a rape joke. You, decent guy that you are, understood that they didn’t mean it, and it was just a joke. And so you laughed.

And, decent guy who would never condone rape, who would step in and stop rape if he saw it, who understands that rape is awful and wrong and bad, when you laughed?

That rapist who was in the group with you, that rapist thought that you were on his side. That rapist knew that you were a rapist like him. And he felt validated, and he felt he was among his comrades.

You. The rapist’s comrade.

And if that doesn’t make you feel sick to your stomach, if that doesn’t make you want to throw up, if that doesn’t disturb you or bother you or make you feel like maybe you should at least consider not participating in that kind of humor anymore…

Well, maybe you aren’t as opposed to rapists as you claim.

"

misandry-mermaid:

Dating tip:
If a man ever tells you that as a woman you are obligated to shave ANY of your body hair, wait until he falls asleep and then scalp him.

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